04 May 2012
by davidtadlock
in Family & Life
Tags: 2012, Abraham, Bible, change of habit, changes, Elvis Presley, Just Do It, movies, Nike, songs, vacation
I remember an old Elvis Presley movie and song called ‘Change of Habit’. The lyrics started out something like this, “If you’re in old habits, set in your old ways, changes are upon us, these are changing days.” That’s the way it has been for my wife and I these last few months, a change of practically everything.
While we were coming back from our 25th anniversary vacation last December I told her that 2012 was going to be our year. I didn’t know how or what but I just knew it was going to be our year. I reiterated that again to her around January. I just felt like this year was going to be our year. I guess I had enough faith to actually claim it instead of just proclaim it.
The biggest change we’ve encountered thus far this year has been moving. After 25 years of marriage and living in the same location we finally decided it was time to pull up roots and get a change of scenery on the home front. She had lived in the same location a lot longer than me so it was an even bigger change for her. We have looked at homes in the past but we haven’t really been shopping. We came across a home that we both liked, made an offer, won the bid and the next thing we know we were buying a house. Of course I give all praise to God. We both feel like He was the one that had it picked out for us all along and it was time to move on.
Much like Abraham in the Bible when God told him to leave his homeland and family and go to a place that was picked out especially for him and his children as an inheritance forever. (Genesis 12:1)
There wasn’t anything special that I had said or done to win God’s favor except being faithful to Him. I feel like it isn’t what I’ve said or done but what I will be doing. I remember several years ago of an article I had written for a church newspaper titled ‘Just Do It’. Linda and I were working for a very small church nearly fifty miles from where we lived. We would stay all day on Sunday’s and go home that evening. There were several occasions we stayed all day then not a single person would show up for Sunday night service. I would be lying if I didn’t say I wasn’t discouraged but Linda was more verbal about it than I was. We were going home on one of those discouraging Sunday evenings as the sun was setting on the horizon. We both couldn’t help but wonder if we were doing the right thing. I told her to look at the beauty of God’s creation as the sun shone through the clouds giving us a very beautiful evening picture on our journey home. That’s when it came to me and I told her “all I want to do is to get to heaven and if this is the way I have to go to get there then I’ll just do it.” Just like the Nike commercial “Just Do It”.
I also knew when it was time to pull up roots from there and move on as well. I knew what I had to do to finish the task I was there for but I also knew after that task was done it was time to move on. There was no denying how I felt at the time. Now Linda tells me she knew it was time for that change for her, for us. I had already been there so I knew how she felt. We had minor, miniscule problems at closing on the home but in the end it all worked out. Now we are in our new home continuing to work on our new change.
Sometime change is good, sometime change isn’t so good. It really pays to know the difference. One thing I have always done was to really pray about it. Whether it’s a home, job, career or car I always prayed about it. Recently a dear friend of mine passed away and I remember one thing that he told me about making decisions. When you do make your decision move on in the direction of your decision and don’t look back with regret. That’s why it really pays to pray first.
We’ll come to many crossroads in life and we’ll have to make a decision whether to turn left or right or just go straight. We know with the direction of this big, momentous change for us and the ones we make tomorrow will be a new journey but the most important thing is we will do it together as we follow God’s guidance and direction in our lives.
11 Feb 2012
by davidtadlock
in Short Stories
Tags: Valentine, Valentine poem
I woke up this morning the sun was shining bright,
I thanked the Lord for letting me have a peaceful and restful night;
I asked Him for His blessings and was there anything I could do,
He simply whispered in my ear, “All I want is you.”
The house was cold and drafty as I got up out of bed,
It wasn’t a house at all but a loving home instead;
I love you Lord I prayed and what would you have me do,
His voice was small and sweet as He said, “All I want is you.”
There wasn’t much in the kitchen and the cupboard was very bare,
I still thanked the Lord for it all and for His loving care;
Is there anything I prayed that you would like me to do,
Again He whispered in my ear, “All I want is you.”
I saw the beauty of God’s creation as I stepped into the yard,
I thanked the Lord for it all from the depth of my heart;
I prayed surely today there is something that you really want me to do,
He whispered in my ear again, “All I want is you.”
With all the problems I had and nothing seemed to be going my way,
I prayed Lord I owe you so much how could I ever repay;
You’ve been kind to me and my family that is so true,
He whispered to me again, “All I want is you.”
With all the troubles that surmounted they seemed to be coming in piles,
Today I feel I’ve climbed the highest mountain and walked a thousand miles;
I prayed to the Lord and thanked Him and was there anything I could do,
He simply whispered in my ear, “All I want is you.”
I lay down in bed at night and thanked the Lord for the beautiful day,
I thanked Him for all His wonderful blessings how could I ever repay;
You didn’t ask for anything from me the whole day through,
Isn’t there anything you want I ask and He quietly whispered, “Just you.”
In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. (1 Thess. 5:18 KJV)
10 Jan 2012
by davidtadlock
in Uncategorized
Tags: Alabama, Alabama Crimson Tide, attitude, Auburn, Auburn Tigers, baseball, basketball, bowl game, character, collegiate football, collegiate teams, football, game of life, Iron Men, National Champions, National Championship, Suwanee Tigers
Think again. Last night I watched one of my favorite collegiate teams win their 14th National Championship. I know there is and always will be a dispute pertaining to how Alabama got fourteen national titles. All I can say about that is, ‘it is what it is’. I didn’t cast a vote any more this time than I did when they were given the title in the 1920’s, 30’s, 60’s or 70’s. They’ve had a tradition of winning the right game at the right time and that’s what they did last night. More than one person in this country down through the ages of college football thought this team or that team was the best there was and no other team in the nation could beat them. So that’s how they got ranked and that’s how they were able to get into a bowl game or even a championship game. It’s not for you or me to decide and it’s not for one person to decide but a great number of people around the country.
If you really want to know about the best collegiate football team that has ever been in college football read up on the 1899 Suwanee Tigers football team also known as the “Iron Men”. There is not a team that had been able to accomplished the feat of these men in one season before nor ever will.
Recently I saw a commercial on television where it showed all these different athletes and it said they will go on to other things besides sports. In other words there are more important things in life than just football, basketball or baseball. It is good to win a game and it’s great to win championships but one game we all are playing in is the game of life and it takes a lifetime commitment to reap the rewards of winning that game. One big victory we all can have is the victory over character. Win or lose our character is a reflection of both. A good attitude toward others will go farther and last longer than the wounds that any one game had ever caused.
If the other team won I would congratulate them and wish them the best and move on. It wasn’t the end of my world (thank God) or the end of my life (really thank God). Last year when Auburn beat Alabama in the Iron Bowl then went on to win the National Championship I congratulated them and the fans, was proud for them then I began looking forward to the next season. I wanted Alabama to win but when they didn’t I’d rather have Auburn bring the title home to this great state than to see it go anywhere else.
I have my picks and if they don’t win so be it. We may agree to disagree but I’m not going to call anyone all kinds of names and wish the worst on them or their team because I wouldn’t want it done to me. I would rather have my character intact, win or lose, than anything else in life. Nope, the ballgames not over quite yet.
A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches, and loving favor rather than silver and gold. Proverbs 22:1
03 Jan 2012
by davidtadlock
in Short Stories
Tags: bad habit, ball game, bowl games, ESPN, happy new year, new year, new year resolutions, recliner, remote control
Christmas is over the tree and lights are taken down,
Another birthday is behind me another new year has come around.
We’re all looking forward to this New Year,
The wife and I decided we’ll make new changes here.
A New Year’s resolution, quit a bad habit or go on a diet,
Start doing some exercises get our bodies back right.
Of course after all the bowl games is when I plan to start,
Because dieting during bowl week isn’t quiet smart.
I flip through the channels until I find ESPN,
I kick back in the recliner the wife says, “Not again.”
I feel I’m in total control with the remote in hand,
I tell her I need to know who is going to win.
I’m taking in the ball game with anticipated glee,
“I can’t believe that call! Apparently that Ref can’t see.”
The defenses are strong neither team can score,
Eventually I fall asleep, the punting has become a bore.
I wake to find that something isn’t quite right,
The wife had changed the channel thus began our first New Year’s fight.
I get mad and call her a name,
She gets mad and calls me the same.
Both of us are mad and she’s really irate,
I think as she throws the remote ‘Boy can she throw straight.’
She storms into the kitchen, I’m rubbing my head,
I lay back in the recliner and yell, “I heard what you said!”
But before the night is over and more words are said,
We’ll make up and I’ll kiss her goodnight before retiring to bed.
Yep, it’s going to be a mighty fine year, I do declare,
I’ll just hold off on my resolutions until next year.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
13 Oct 2011
by davidtadlock
in Family & Life
As some of you may know, recently we lost a very close relative. My wife’s only sister passed away back on October 6th. We lived next door to each other and she nor my wife worked but both were a stay at home wife and mother. For Mary Ann she was a stay at home grandmother as well. She loved her grandchildren and took very good care of them.
Whenever you saw one most of the time you saw the other. Linda and ‘May’, as most people called her, were almost always together. She would call Linda and ask her to go with her somewhere or Linda would call her. Linda would walk to her house to check on her or she would come to our house and sit on the porch with Linda and share a cup of coffee on some mornings.
We always get emails about friendship and love and it would say if you love me send it back to me or send it on to the ones you love or don’t want to lose. Just like everyone else I don’t want to lose any of those I love. Generally I don’t forward many of those emails. Mainly because I have gotten them hundreds of times in the past, maybe even thousands of times and after awhile it starts to get old, boring and annoying. So I’ll read it and then delete it.
There is one thing that I always do and for those of you that do know me is that I always tell people that I love them. I always say if that is the last time I see or speak to them I want them to know that I love them. That’s why I always make it a point to tell those I love that I love them. My mother used to tell us that she loves us then she would say, “I just wanted you to know that because I may forget but you won’t forget.”
In times like these we always reflect on words of those that have gone before us. Little words or comments that are burned into our memory forever. Over the weekend I thought of my father, he would always tell me to always wear a suit and tie. I thought of one of Linda’s uncles, we called ‘Uncle Jim’. He would put his arm around you and say, “Well shug, we all got to go sometime. It’s all part of life.” I thought about one of my own uncles before he passed away his word were, “I’m settin’ on ready.” And of course my mother’s favorite phrase was simply, “Praise the Lord!” She even used that phrase one time at a rest area that had one of those new high-tech automatic flush toilets. Linda came out of the restroom red faced and in tears laughing trying to tell me and of course in a restroom even a whisper would carry a echo.
What is my last word? I love you. Because one day I may forget but you won’t never forget and if we never meet or speak again you’ll always know that. What will be your last word?
As for man, his days are as grass: as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth. For the wind passeth over it, and it is gone; and the place thereof shall know it no more. (Psalms 103:15,16) KJV
28 Jun 2011
by davidtadlock
in Short Stories
Tags: flowers, love, pastor, sermon, Sunday, wife
Our pastor preached Sunday about husband’s loving their wife’s and he mentioned that we husbands should be spontaneous sometime and buy our wife’s flowers or take them out to eat for no special reason except for the fact that we love them. I decided to try that.
It had bothered me all day that I hadn’t gotten my wife any flowers in a long time. I guess the pastor’s sermon really sunk in and it had eaten away at my conscious. On my way home from work I stopped by the flower shop and got her a beautiful bouquet of flowers all mixed up with different kinds of flowers. It was a beautiful arrangement.
I wanted to surprise her when I got home so I hid the flowers behind my back and rung the doorbell. When she opened the door I stood there smiling at her and I pulled the flowers out from behind my back and held them up and said, “Here honey! These are for you!” Suddenly she broke down and started crying. I was surprised and concerned at her reaction so I asked her as I reached out to hug her. “Honey, what’s wrong?”
She said, “It’s been terrible. I’ve just had a terrible day today!”
“Why what happened?” I asked.
“Well, it started this morning when the washing machine tore up, Then about midday the dog got sick and threw up all over the carpet, then the vacuum cleaner messed up and wouldn’t work and now here you come home drunk.”
10 Jun 2011
by davidtadlock
in Short Stories
Earl slightly opened one of his eyes as he thought he heard a light tap on his bedroom window. The comforter was pulled up over his head and face as the bright sun shone between the slats of the blinds. Maybe it was just a stupid bird that saw his imagine in the window again. He thought. It had happened before, birds would land on his window sill and see their imagine in the window and peck at it. He knew it couldn’t be someone knocking on his window since his bedroom was on the second floor. I may have been dreaming it. He thought again. He pulled the comforter on up to cover his whole head. As he slowly closed his eyes he heard it again, a slight but distinct tap on his window. It must be a bird. He thought again. Maybe it’ll go on away was his next thought.
TAP! He heard it good that time and it seemed to be a little louder, so he definitely knew he wasn’t dreaming it. He threw the cover back and walked to the window while talking out loud. “Stupid birds! Just because they want to get up early on Saturday doesn’t mean I do too.” School had just ended for the summer the day before and Earl was looking forward to his first day of the school’s summer break by sleeping in late. He grabbed the string on the blind and snatched it up quickly. He had spooked birds like that before and watched them quickly fly away. But there was no bird. He looked around the outside of his window when suddenly he saw what looked like a small BB come from the direction of the ground and tap his window again. TAP!
He looked down and saw his best friend Toby standing in his yard. When Toby saw Earl look at him he waved his arms up in the air then motioned for Earl to come out.
Earl raised his window up and put his hands on the sill and leaned out the window. “Toby! You do know it’s the first Saturday of the summer vacation don’t you? What do you want?” He asked.
“Hey. Want to make some money? I got a job for us if you want to.” He said.
With a confused look on his face he asked. “Who is going to hire a couple of ten-year olds?”
Toby held his hands out as though he was feeling for raindrops. “Do you want to or not? If you don’t I’ll see if Taylor wants to.”
Taylor Neese lived on the corner of the street. A couple of years older than Toby and Earl, he didn’t hang around them too much, especially at school. He hung out with some of the older kids, he tried to look and be cool. He did do things with them on the street or at their house every once in a while like play ball and even played with cars, trucks and army soldiers when he knew no one from school would be around to see him. For awhile he even played video games with them when one of them got a new gaming system or a new game for their birthday or Christmas. As far as anyone from school knew he was way too cool to do any of those things.
So in the back of his mind Earl knew Toby was only bluffing about getting Taylor to help him.
“Well, wait a minute and let me get dressed and I’ll be right on down.” Earl told him before he pulled the window and blind back down.
Earl walked out the back door and saw Toby as he stood there waiting for him with his red wagon loaded with a shovel, hoe and a couple of yard rakes. “Whatcha’ got them for?” Earl asked.
“That’s for our new business…partner.” Toby told him with a big grin on his face.
“And what business is that?”
“Our yard cleaning business. That’s if you want to be my partner.” As Toby reached and took the wagon by the handle he continued to talk as he started walking toward the sidewalk. “I mean if you don’t want to I can go ask Taylor. I’m sure he would be more than willing to make a bunch of money this summer. I’m expecting to make about a million dollars before going back to school and if you wanted to be my partner then I figure we could split the profits.” He stopped just as he pulled the wagon completely onto the sidewalk, put his index finger and his thumb on his chin while he looked up toward the sky while he figured the numbers in his head. “I figure that would give us about $50,000 dollars apiece.” He looked at Earl again with a grin on his face. “Reckon you could use $50,000 dollars this summer?” He started walking again. “Shoot, we’ll be the richest kids in school. I betcha’ nobody else would make that kind of money over the summer.
“So I guess you got the money part figured out but have you figured out who is going to pay us that kind of money to clean their yards?” Earl asked.
“Well, mama told me that Mr. Robertson wanted someone to help sweep the leaves and junk up from under his magnolia tree in his backyard. She called him and asked him if he still needed some help and he told her to tell me to be over there bright and early Saturday morning. Mr. and Mrs. Jenkins wanted someone to rake the leaves and berries up from their Chinaberry trees in their yard and I heard that the old widow woman on the next street wanted someone to sweep up all the pine straw in her yard. I’ll have to go over to find out for sure though. Daddy said if we did a good job then we could make a lot of money this summer just by letting word get out.”
“Well who told you that you could make a million dollars in one summer?” Earl asked.
“Daddy did. He said we could get a good name for ourselves sweeping old people’s yards we could make a ton of money. He said we probably could even make a million dollars. And with you helping me then I figure we could work twice as fast and get more yards and make even more money. That’s why I said if we made a million dollars then that would put us making about $50,000 dollars apiece. Don’t you see? Together we’ll have a better chance to make the big bucks.”
Earl didn’t say anything else and walked next to Toby down the street to Mr. Robertson’s house. When they got up the walk to the doorsteps Toby held the handle of the wagon out to Earl. “Here, hold this and I’ll knock on the door and see if he’s here.”
Toby knocked on the door. He knocked again. “He’s supposed to be here.” Toby said. “Mama told me he said to be here bright and early Saturday morning.” He knocked a third time. Toby walked to one of the windows, put both his hands up to cut the glare, and peered inside to see if he could see any movement through the thin-laced curtains. “I bet he done forgot.”
“You don’t reckon he’s in there dead do you?” Earl asked with a concerned look on his face. “He is pretty old you know.”
“Well if he is I ain’t gonna sweep his yard at all!” Toby said as he stepped down on the top step and sat down on the porch. “Cause we can’t get paid by a dead man.” Toby had a mad expression on his face as he blew a breath and put his elbows on his knees and rested his chin in the palm of his hands.
Earl joined him on the doorstep and sat down beside him still holding the handle of the wagon. They both turned and looked back at the door when they heard the lock from the inside and the door being opened slowly. Mr. Robertson was a tall slender man with a head full of silver and white hair that he combed straight back. “Well hello boys. I thought I heard a knock on the door while I was getting dressed.” Mr. Robertson said while he opened the screen door. “Why don’t you two come on in.” He said with a smile. As the two boys walked in he asked them, “You’re here to clean the yard today aren’t you?”
“Yes sir.” Toby said as they walked into the living room. Toby and Earl both looked around at all the pictures and whatnots he had on the wall, mantle, shelves and coffee table. “Earl said you might be dead in here but I knew better Mr. Robertson.” He turned and looked up at the elder gentleman. “I figured if you were going to die you would wait until after we got through sweeping your yard anyway.” Toby said with a grin on his face. Earl took his elbow and punched Toby in his side after he revealed the conversation they had on his front porch.
“Well, I’m not dead and I don’t plan on dying anytime soon. But I appreciate your concern. Come on and I’ll show you what I want done.” Mr. Robertson led the boys through the house out the backdoor to show them where he wanted them to sweep and clean up. “Now I’ll have to go to town after while to run some errands.” He looked down at them. “You boys think you’ll be alright while I’m gone?”
“Yes sir.” They both said in unison.
“Alright then. I’ll let you two get started and I’ll go on and I’ll be back later.”
While Mr. Robertson was gone to town the boys had raked up all the leaves, bagged them and set them on the corner of the street so the city garbage truck could pick them up later. When Mr. Robertson came back he watched them for a few minutes out his kitchen window as they finished up their work. He stepped out the backdoor and ushered them to come inside and get some fresh lemonade he had made.
While the boys sat at the little kitchen table Mr. Robertson asked them, “Well boys you did a fine job how much do I owe you?”
Toby and Earl looked at each other. Toby spoke up and his voice almost trembled as though he was almost afraid to say. “I…I guess…uh…um…three dollars?” He asked more than told Mr. Robertson.
Mr. Robertson got up from the table and walked over to his cabinet and pulled out a coffee can. He reached into the can and fumbled inside of it for a minute. “Well fellers I don’t reckon I have three dollars all I’ve got are a couple of fives.” He turned around and handed them each a crisp five-dollar bill. “Besides I think you boys deserve it.”
They both said at the same time, as their eyes got wide open. “Thank you, Mr. Robertson.” With that they put their glasses down on the table, got up and proceeded to leave. As they both began to make their exit out the backdoor Toby turned and told him with a more confident voice. “Now Mr. Robertson if you ever need your yard cleaned again, we’ll be in business for the rest of the summer.”
A smile and wave from Mr. Robertson the boys left and went home.
The following Monday Toby had talked to Mrs. Jenkins who lived down the other end of the street about raking and cleaning her yard. They had several Chinaberry trees in their backyard and it always made a huge mess with the stems, leaves and berries and it seemed that the small flowers would bloom and fall off all in the same day.
By the time they got through Mr. Jenkins had already got off work and made it home. He stepped out of his car at the same time Toby and Earl had put the last garbage bag of leaves on the curb. He walked around back with the boys to observe their work. “You boys did a fine job! I think you both deserve something extra special.” He reached into his back pocket and pulled out his wallet and handed them five dollars apiece.
“Thank you Mr. Jenkins!” They exclaimed excitedly. They ran around to the backyard and grabbed their wagon and tools and came running back around front heading home.
“Wow Toby! You were right! We done made ten dollars in two days! We shore will make about a million before the summer’s over!” Earl said.
“I told you! Didn’t I? We are going to be rich before school starts back.” He blows a breath and thought for a moment. “You know what Earl? I think I’m going to buy me one of them suped-up golf carts. That way we can just ride to school together and we wouldn’t even have to take the bus.”
“Yea! We both could get one and that way we could take turns driving each other to school every day.”
Thursday afternoon the boys got the job to rake Mr. Langston’s yard but he was very feeble and had been sick so he didn’t have much money to pay them so Toby and Earl agreed to rake his yard for three dollars each. To which he gladly accepted.
Friday they got to rake the churchyard. Reverend Clemmons came out the church door as they got through and brought them both a bottle of water and sat down on the front steps with them as they drank their water. “I’m very proud of both of you boys. You know, idle hands are the devil’s workshop and I’m glad to see that you both are not keeping your hands idle.”
“No sirree.” Toby said as he took a big gulp of water. “You won’t see our hands idle. Daddy caught my hands idle one time and he got all over me for it.”
The Reverend laughed out loud. He reached into his jacket pocket and pulled out several one-dollar bills. He handed both the boys two dollars apiece, patted them both on the shoulders and told them he’d see them in church on Sunday.
As they walked back home Earl asked. “Toby. What is a idle hand?”
“It’s the same as dirty hands. You know like when you play in the dirt or mud and don’t wash before you eat.” Toby said confidently. “Daddy got on to me and told me not to be doing that…Yep…Idle hands.”
Saturday they got up real early and went to the next street to old widow Bailey’s home to see if she needed all the pine straw raked up in her yard. Toby and Earl knew it would be a big job and it would take all day so they were counting on it to be a big paying job.
As they pulled the wagon up to the bottom step Toby walked up to the door and rung the doorbell. Mrs. Bailey was an old, frail widow woman who wasn’t much taller than the boys themselves.
“Mrs. Bailey. We were wondering if you needed your yard raked.”
“Why yes sir. I sure do.” She stepped out onto the porch and looked at the pine straw that had blanketed the yard from several of years of neglect. She smiled at them and told them. “Why I’ll give both you boys fifty cents apiece if you rake my yard and get all this pine straw up.” She turned to walk back into the house before turning around again. “Now let me know when you get through and I’ll pay you.” She turned and walked back into the house.
Earl stepped up on the porch next to Toby. “Toby.” Earl said in a solemn voice. “I just don’t think this is working out like we planned. It seems like to me that every time we rake a yard we are making less money not more. If we keep going like this then by next week we’ll be paying them to just do their yard work. We haven’t made but fifteen dollars apiece. I could be wrong but I think that’s a long way from $50,000 dollars or even a million. I just don’t think I want to do all this hard work for just fifty cents.”
Toby looked at Earl. “I don’t think I do either. I know what we’ll do.”
Toby turned around and rung the doorbell again. When Mrs. Bailey came to the door he told her. “Mrs. Bailey. We’ve got to go eat breakfast but as soon as we get around to it we’ll be back.”
“Why you boys didn’t eat breakfast before you came over?” She asked.
“No ma’am.” Toby said.
As they stepped off the porch Earl asked Toby. “Toby. Why didn’t you just tell her we couldn’t do it for that little bit of money? You didn’t have to lie to her.”
“I didn’t lie to her. All I had this morning was a Pop Tart. Now do you call that a breakfast? I think we should get our money and go to town and to the arcade.” Toby smiled at Earl. “What’d you say pal.”
Earl smiled back. “Sounds good to me.”
With that they both left and went home and decided that their yard cleaning business wasn’t making enough money for them to continue.
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